QUOTE(bordercolliefan @ Jan 13 2006, 10:56 AM)

I just learned that this is the father of one of my daughter's kindergarten classmates (last year) at Natoma Station.
His wife asked me last year if I wanted my daughter to join a Girl Scout (Daisy) troop that she was organizing. We did not -- which I am now grateful for. Rumors (and I emphasize RUMORS-- I have not substantiated them) are circulating that Girl Scout slumber parties were the opportunity for his crime(s).
I am heartbroken to realize that there is a strong likelihood that some or all of the victims were classmates of my daughter.
It is also sobering to realize how little we can really protect our children. This man was a firefighter; his wife was an elementary school teacher and (apparently) a Girl Scout leader. --Knowing this, I would have let my children go to their house without hesitation, if the opportunity had arisen. --Just goes to show that we can never truly know where evil lurks.
BCF -- I'm very sorry for your daughter and all of her classmates that they have to live this reality at so young and precious and innocent an age.
The only thing we can do is educate our children. Without going into scary detail, we need to make sure they know about appropriate and inappropriate touching, that they should never keep secrets other adults tell them to keep, that they have the right to say "stop that" and to scream, that they should never take any kind of pills or medicine from anyone but their parents, etc. We taught our children about dropping to the floor (dead weight) and screaming if a stranger ever tried to take them, while reassuring them that we didn't think anything like that would ever happen to them. We did educating in a casual way, discussing events that were in the news and empowering them with techniques -- again, reassuring them that this type of thing would probably never happen to them. I've heard stories about children who -- because they had been educated -- knew how to protect themselves, get away, etc.
In a perfect world we wouldn't have to even raise these subjects with our children, but it isn't a perfect world. While no amount of educating can keep them 100% safe 100% of the time, we can do what is within our power. It's a shame and a fact that evil can lurk in any person of any profession and of any community; we can't be lulled into a false sense of security that because we don't live in a urban setting we have nothing to worry about.
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