This is very personal but I feel i must share this info.
My sister, who is 41, is one of the 158 people who live in Folsom and are being served by Sac County Mental Health .
She would benefit from this type of housing. She is bipolar. ( she takes 4 different types of medication) She is currently coming out of a severe depression that twice nearly took her life in August.
She currently lives with me and my family ( my husband and 3 daughters)since with a disability income of $605 dollars month, she can not afford to live on her own.
She applied for SSD and was approved. She will now get $715 a month, period. She has worked off and on over the years when her illness allowed her. right now it does not.
We have lived with this devistating illness since she was about 13. she has lived on her own over the years, sometimes with roommates.
She came to live with me in Sept. when her medication was no longer accurate. We needed to have her close to family to help her. She had been living 2 hours away.
We struggled for several months to get her medication adjusted and believe me, it is not easy. Chemicals for the brain are difficult. Some work for others and some dont.
We feel that in about 6 months she should be at the point to live on her own again. What do I do? She can not afford to live on her own and we can not afford to fully support her.
I would like her to stay in our community.Having her closer to us, helps us keep on top of her and her medications. I would prefer to not ship her off to some other part of the county. I belive in helping those currently in my community.
Please explain to me why she should not live in our city?
I think if you have never had this type of disease or illness in your family, you will never see its true devasation. " walk in my shoes before you cast judgement".
This disease will never go away. With proper medication, counseling, family and community support, she can hope to have a "normal" life. Many do and many successfully manage their disease.
She is not a threat to anyone and in fact is so very sweet.
But here are some of the facts:
this apt complex is designed for those that are successfully managing their illness. It is not for those with criminal backgrounds, violence or drug histories.The screening criteria is very strict. How many apartment complexes are u aware of that can legally do a criminal background on their potential tenants?
Those that have this type of illness can do very well when they live in an environment with others that share their illness. Having a manager there 8-5, supporting those that live there, can keep them on the right path.
I could probably go on for several more pages but I wanted to share this.
But I leave with this last question?
If an apt complex was being petitioned to house the sight impaired, hearing impaired, or mentally challenged who successfully can live independantly, would we be fighting it?
There is a terrible stigma about mental illness and it is time we stopped this stigma. Not all people with mental illness are criminals.
"These people " are our Mother, Fathers, Brothers and sisters.
Lisa, you are awesome! And thank you for sharing your story! I just started reading this thread today and can't believe the level of disrespect some of these folks are spewing out!! And the hatred! Calling people "mentals" and "psycho's" and all. It makes me ashamed to live in the community. My husband is not a bleeding-heart liberal but he is a mental health professional and we know first-hand that the judgement and stigma attached to mental illness needs to go away
