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[marianna]

Sorry John, I also have to agree with Ken.

[Andrea V]

John- I find it a bit offensive that you have edited rational discussion from this site ---

It is not so much what one does in the bedroom as it is the misconception of what the gay culture is all about and I sure for one hope that I have opened the window into the reality of it - based on a request from another member of the group and maybe even a mod -- albiet to be be censored and deleted at your whim...

so be it - you are the master and leader of the group .... if you dont allow members to interact and find out truths- who are me mere subjects to question that ....

sorry if you found education of the real world against your likes .... but others wanted to know and in this case that is the real shame to keep them in the dark on this matter ...

Censor away ...

Cheers
Ken

Yeah, but remember, his house, his toys.

[Victorita9]

Nothing wrong with softball. Yes there are a lot of gay/bi women who play. I know I played till I was 19.

Nothing wrong with whom you choose to be intimate with...Just don't expect to have your choice been seen with open arms or that you should be treated the same when your choice is clearly different.

I personally find it gross to see two men kissing and even worse when my 3 year old neice witnesses it. The unfortunate thing with that is I cannot sugarcoat that situation. She is much too smart for her age and she said, "EeewwwHHH!!!They are kissing because they love eachother like boyfriends and girlfriends. Like Mama Monkey and Papa monkey. That's gross...boys are not suposed to kiss." Her exact words...At her age of three it's hard to explain to her what is right and what is wrong mainly because I myself do not know that answer. If I based it off of what they bible says then homosexuality is wrong but then again many of my life situations do not follow the bible...so that would make many people including myself hypocrites. So do I then tell her it's okay because they love eachother? I lied to her (which I hate to do) and said "They are friends and friends give kisses..." She replied with "Friends don't kiss like movie kisses though." (She calls long loving frech kissing "movie" kisses like on Shrek)...I just told her "ok silly" and I changed the subject.

This is hard on me. I want to make sure what I say I right...but what is...no one knows and all I know is there will be a time when the change of subject will no longer work...Probably in a year or so...She is the question monster...not cookie...question!!!

Why can't we learn to just live...NOT BY SHOVING YOUR SEXUALITY DOWN MY THROAT and I will do the same...PDA is fine within reason but my goodness sometimes people just need realize that other people are around...Oh yeah and live for something more than what hole you play in!!! Take that as you will...evil yes...How I feel, absolutely...You are more of a person than just sex...right?

Thats how i feel sometimes! People, especially teenagers just make out in public to much.A peck and hand holding is ok but couples need to keep their toungs in their own mouths.

[tessieca]

Everyone in the whole world is picked on, pre-9th grade.

OK, it's almost too painful to mention, but I was relentlessly called "Carpenter's Dream." For those of you who don't know, that's "flat as a board and never been screwed." For some reason teachers ignored these taunts, and I just never thought to sue anyone.

[Robert Giacometti]

OK, it's almost too painful to mention, but I was relentlessly called "Carpenter's Dream." For those of you who don't know, that's "flat as a board and never been screwed." For some reason teachers ignored these taunts, and I just never thought to sue anyone.

Sounds better than being called Tenessee Toddy, all A** and no body!

[tessieca]

Umm, it hurt. A little sensitivity please.

[swmr545]

Question for all of you that had terrible experiences in high school.

How many of you filed a complaint with the school administration/district?

[awood]

Question for all of you that had terrible experiences in high school.

How many of you filed a complaint with the school administration/district?

Never would have thought to. It was my business and if HS was preperation for the "real world" I knew it was mine to take care of.

[bordercolliefan]

John- I find it a bit offensive that you have edited rational discussion from this site ---

It is not so much what one does in the bedroom as it is the misconception of what the gay culture is all about and I sure for one hope that I have opened the window into the reality of it - based on a request from another member of the group and maybe even a mod -- albiet to be be censored and deleted at your whim...

so be it - you are the master and leader of the group .... if you dont allow members to interact and find out truths- who are me mere subjects to question that ....

sorry if you found education of the real world against your likes .... but others wanted to know and in this case that is the real shame to keep them in the dark on this matter ...

Censor away ...

Cheers
Ken

Hey! I just came back to this thread to find out that my question -- and apparently the answer -- has been deleted.

So now I guess I'm left in the dark.

John, with all due respect, this was not a "dirty" conversation. No one is soliciting sex or being vulgar or harassing other members... we are simply trying to find out similar information to what is probably discussed in a high school sex ed. class. I think it is reactionary and dangerous to deem any factual conversation about sex "dirty." --That's how we end up with very repressed and ignorant people.

[swmr545]

Swmr - I have a question. Were you picked on as a child, pre-9th grade?

By my siblings, a few kids at school but the teachers in elementary and middle school intervened and put an end to it.

[folsom500]

By my siblings, a few kids at school but the teachers in elementary and middle school intervened and put an end to it.

So what types of reasons were you picked on at such a young age ?

[Dave Burrell]

I also know of some gay friends of mine that weren't having any luck with girls so they decided that they would try being gay to see if they can get the companionship they wanted.

sounds to me like they were just desperate for some kind of sex one way or another


these are not compelling reasons for one to be gay and seems to be a weakness by letting their life be controlled by their johnson's needs

[Dave Burrell]

Swmr, you take jafount's reasonable argument and then distort and extrapolate it into something ridiculous in your attempt to discount the validity of the argument.

In the end, jafount's argument remains the same, but your reasoning and rebuttal looks ridiculous. Some might say this is another demonstration of your tendancy to be overdramatic.

And, since you tried to make your point in this way it leads us to think you can not offer a counterpoint that is reasonable.

+100

[john]

Hey! I just came back to this thread to find out that my question -- and apparently the answer -- has been deleted.

So now I guess I'm left in the dark.

John, with all due respect, this was not a "dirty" conversation. No one is soliciting sex or being vulgar or harassing other members... we are simply trying to find out similar information to what is probably discussed in a high school sex ed. class. I think it is reactionary and dangerous to deem any factual conversation about sex "dirty." --That's how we end up with very repressed and ignorant people.

Ken, sorry you have been insulted that I "moderated" you, but I gotta draw the line somewhere. People's sexual habits are their own business. I know you are only answering a question someone asked you, it's not really your fault for answering a question. I just find the discussion entering an area which is inappropriate for a family-friendly forum.

BCFan, if you really want to know, just IM him next time.

[swmr545]

So what types of reasons were you picked on at such a young age ?

By my siblings, just typical sibling stuff.

At school I was picked on for being fat. And since I was fat the other students thought that I was slow. Once I began to beat them in the playground, they stopped. In class I was teased for king to read all the time, the teachers I had would intervene.