Did he cheat on you? Does he neglect the kids? Does he post here? I've only seen bits and pieces of one side of the story where he is made out to be the bad guy which everybody else seems to think is fine.
I've never said he was a bad guy, in fact he's a good guy. He just decided that he's not completely committed to his marriage and is trying to figure us out. No, he doesn't post on here and the other stuff isn't any of your business, nor anyone else's, which is why I haven't addressed it.