QUOTE(bordercolliefan @ Jan 19 2005, 10:06 AM)
The Powerhouse director stated that some homeless are doing the "couch-hopping" thing where they can stay at a friend or relative's house for a few nights, but it is not a permanent arrangement. This may be why we don't see more homeless moms with kids on the streets.
Presumably the goodwill of friends and relatives runs out after a while, and these folks still need help.
When I became a mom, I saw how easy it would be for a single mom to lose a job and become homeless. A lot of low-wage jobs don't have sick days. Kids get sick A LOT. Seems like if your child has one bout of a bad flu or bronchitus -- or worse, a chronic condition like asthma -- you could be out of a job before you knew what hit you.

So, that brings up the issue of treating homelessness like a medical condition. We need to address prevention and treatment. Those currently homeless need treatment, in the form of temporary housing and aid to get back on their feet.
Everyone else needs prevention services. Education will ensure that one will not have to take minimum wage jobs so that they will be 1 check away from the streets. Women need to realize that being a single mom is an enormous challenge, and one not to be taken on unless one is financially sound and emontionally prepared to handle it. Being a mom is tough enough. I know. I have one, and my wife is one (they tell me how tough it is all the time! :-) )
We truly do need to stress the importance of education and self reliance, rather than creating more programs for people to depend on. Those programs will get cut someday.
I'll never forget when my cousin's 18 year old kid got pregnant by her 18 year old unemployed boyfriend. She explained to her dad that it would be okay. She wanted to get pregnant. She was in love. Besides, she could get free medical from the county, Section 8 housing, AFDC, and to top it off, she looked young enough to ride the bus at the student discount rate! She had it all figured out. Here child, now 16, just had a baby of her own! Ain't that sweet?
The liberal in me wants to take care of the world, particularly those who CAN'T take care of themselves. The pragmatist in me sees that we can't cure all of society's ills, and that sometimes, our programs can perpetuate problems, rather than solving them.
As an aside, my cousin's daughter eventually got married to a great guy, and they moved back to his home state of Ohio, because it was AFFORDABLE.