You're right. But I'd like to bring up a couple points which are raising red flags all over the place:
1) I find it hard to believe a 3rd grader is doing a report. Anything is possible I suppose, but it seems sort of overkill for simple 3rd grade curriculum.
2) Why is said "report" being researched a week before school lets out for summer? (This incident happened within the last week or so). Ask any teacher, the last thing they want is more work to grade as the year winds down.
3) Why was said "research" unsupervised?
4) How could the pedophile who contacted this girl just happen to live .4mi away?
These points are suspicious and should probably be looked into further by some sort of investigative authority. The mother has her story, but I wonder how much of it was just to cover her poor parenting? I suspect her daughter was merely surfing the internet for entertainment and wasn't being watched. Plain and simple.
I dont need to live near this family to figure out something major is missing from this puzzle.
Neighborly backslapping, backstabbing and guilty conconscience's aside (you know who you are if you claim that the child's parents have put her in danger and you never reported it (that makes you a monster as well--as far as I'm concerned)
It is easy to gain access to someone's ISP via WAP or WAN or whatever.
It is easy for anyone to find access to someone via internet these days.
Way, Way tooooo much supposition on this thread.
Let the cops do their jobs and let the family deal with each other.
Go FPD for getting another pervert off the streets!!!!!!