
Stabbing On East Bidwell
#46
Posted 04 October 2011 - 09:28 AM
My guess is that Folsom has not changed much, it likely has always been this way. I grew up in a small town not unlike Folsom and knew people (cough cough) who hung out at parks and did things that parents wouldn't approve of. We just didn't have FB and other social media outlets on which to publicize it (thank the lord).
The sad part is that the parents probably don't care if the kids don't care enough to hide it.
Barb J
#47
Posted 04 October 2011 - 09:37 AM
Just received this news release from the Folsom PD:
An investigation into the stabbing death of a 19 year old Folsom man revealed he may have been involved in a drug deal gone badly. Although the murder of Minor Leon was solved within minutes of his death, the investigation into Saturday night’s murder lasted well into the following day.
Joshua Atkins attracted a passing officer’s attention when he sprinted in front of the officer’s marked patrol car on East Bidwell Street. The officer eventually detained him as he dodged into a nearby alleyway.
Two officers responding to assist to first officer caught the glimpse of a man lying facedown on the sidewalk in front of 616 East Bidwell Street. When they stopped to check of the welfare of the man, they discovered he had been stabbed. The man was non-responsive and had no pulse when paramedics arrived on scene. Despite their life saving efforts, Minor Leon was pronounced dead at Mercy Hospital of Folsom. Officers quickly connected the two incidents.
Good police work on behalf of the officers involved resulted in the immediate capture of Atkins. He was booked into the Sacramento County Jail where he is being held ineligible for bail.
Somehow, that doesn't seem to tell the full story, does it?
#48
Posted 04 October 2011 - 09:38 AM
Folsom used to have a real gang problem back in the 80's.I am also horrified that Folsom is being infiltrated by the "gangsta" culture, as I hoped it never would be.
I am not surprised at all in these kids. The gangsta culture is glorified by celebrities in music, fashion, by and the dreaded 'reality' shows.
Nope, not just you. I can't believe what they call each other.
I'm with you on that one. I once had to pass a crowded bar to get to my where I'd parked my car. There was a group of young white kids outside, and they were trying to restrain one of them from fighting someone inside the bar who was out of my view. All I could hear as I approached was, 'f____ you n____!', 'I'll kick yo arse, n___!'
As I passed them, I see that inside the bar, another group of white kids was restraining another white guy who was yelling back at his nemesis, 'f____ you n___!' 'I'll f____ you up, n___!'
I wanted to discuss the use of the word with them, but thought I'd better just let them play.
As for the parents, I don't know what level of involvement or guidance they offered, but the two young men in question were adults, so the parents may have had little control.
The 'kids will be kids' excuse has been used since the beginning of parental excuse-making.
Steve Heard
Folsom Real Estate Specialist
EXP Realty
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#49
Posted 04 October 2011 - 09:39 AM
#50
Posted 04 October 2011 - 09:40 AM
Somehow, that doesn't seem to tell the full story, does it?
Absolutely not. Just sharing.
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#51
Posted 04 October 2011 - 10:05 AM
Folsom used to have a real gang problem back in the 80's.
It did? I've lived here since '83 and don't remember that at all. I know every time I've seen a problem developing in the past, the PD has been right on top of it. I'm just worried that may no longer be the case.
I am not surprised at all in these kids. The gangsta culture is glorified by celebrities in music, fashion, by and the dreaded 'reality' shows.
I'm with you on that one. I once had to pass a crowded bar to get to my where I'd parked my car. There was a group of young white kids outside, and they were trying to restrain one of them from fighting someone inside the bar who was out of my view. All I could hear as I approached was, 'f____ you n____!', 'I'll kick yo arse, n___!'
As I passed them, I see that inside the bar, another group of white kids was restraining another white guy who was yelling back at his nemesis, 'f____ you n___!' 'I'll f____ you up, n___!'
I wanted to discuss the use of the word with them, but thought I'd better just let them play.
I heard a young white girl call her two African-American male friends that same name as they all were laughing and joking around walking up Dean Way. I just don't get it.
As for the parents, I don't know what level of involvement or guidance they offered, but the two young men in question were adults, so the parents may have had little control.
I don't know the level of involvement either and I'm trying to be mindful of the fact that, no matter the circumstances, some parents have just lost their child and are heartbroken.
The 'kids will be kids' excuse has been used since the beginning of parental excuse-making.
I know it's probably naive, but I'd like to see something good come out of this like some lives taking a different turn instead of excuses being made.
#52
Posted 04 October 2011 - 10:20 AM
I know it's probably naive, but I'd like to see something good come out of this like some lives taking a different turn instead of excuses being made.
Good call... clean up gangs, drugs, and homeless to turn some around.
Maybe we can also get some to never start. Drug use starts in elementary and junior high. Even last week Vista closed the bathrooms due to pot use.
#53
Posted 04 October 2011 - 12:02 PM
#54
Posted 04 October 2011 - 02:40 PM
I am feeling the need to go home an bubble wrap my children for the next ten years!
#55
Posted 04 October 2011 - 02:50 PM
So why was he not in jail if he was sentenced to 90 days in early September?
Jail overcrowding I would guess...
#56
Posted 04 October 2011 - 03:21 PM
This is how many kids talk. When I see my daughters and neices and nephews write each other online, I am no longer shocked by what they say or how they say it. Speling n grammer aint impotent no mo.Is it me or is anyone else blown away by the language and lack of basic writing skills from those who posted on the Telegraph? Is this the result of the Folsom schools because it is horrifying!
I am feeling the need to go home an bubble wrap my children for the next ten years!
Steve Heard
Folsom Real Estate Specialist
EXP Realty
BRE#01368503
Owner - MyFolsom.com
916 718 9577
#57
Posted 04 October 2011 - 03:39 PM
Is it me or is anyone else blown away by the language and lack of basic writing skills from those who posted on the Telegraph? Is this the result of the Folsom schools because it is horrifying!
I am feeling the need to go home an bubble wrap my children for the next ten years!
I understand your sentiment about the language and writing skills, but it's not the result of going to school in Folsom for children who have parents that pay attention to their children's education.
#58
(MaxineR)
Posted 04 October 2011 - 04:19 PM
I didn't fool myself into thinking my kids would be any different or any better than anyone else's. My kids didn't get the latest greatest stuff all their friends had, and it bothered them, but I said tough! Learn to save your money, babysit or mow lawns to get what you want. They were so busy with me monitoring their homework (THAT came first)and them making money, to get that 'all important' stuff, they didn't have time to get into trouble. I made it my business to know where they were at all times and I expected them to try and get around me.
I used to set my alarm so it would go off at different times in the night to do bed checks....and my kids knew it. The pillows formed to look like they were in their beds, didn't work on me. My daughter once told her friend it was like I had eyes in the back of my head. I always managed to bust her, when she was doing something she knew she shouldn't be doing.
Oh, there were tears and threats of running away...I'd just hug them, tell them I loved them and suggested we pick up one of their friends, get pizza and go to a movie. I gave them alternatives for having fun, not always the old "go to your room", while I kicked back and had a cold beer. Ours was a no smoking, no alcohol household. I didn't just talk the talk, I really walked the walk. Kids need good role models. Yeah, they called me square and too hard on them....but now they are glad I was.
Parents think if they just drag kids to church, it should do the trick....it won't. I had an aunt who was caught doing the nasty with the preacher's son, at church! No, parents must attend to their own kids up bringing...no short cuts work in that department.
My son once told me that living in my house was like living in a prison. I replied, better to live in one now, with a chance to get out at age eighteen, than live in one for life, later.
I made raising my kids my career, not my pass time. My husband was the bread winner and I took care of business at home. The kids tried to place him in the middle and he would just look at them and say, "what your Mom says goes, you know that." So he backed me up 100%, period.
Our community and parents need to step up and MAKE this a safe place to live. If you see a group of people, any age, that seems to be about to get into some bad stuff, call the cops! You HAVE a phone and know how to dial 911....DO IT! Don't just walk by and go on about your business! You could save a life by the simple act of using your cell phone to alert the cops.
I just called the cops the other night when I saw a group of kids hanging out. They couldn't have been over eighteen. It was after eleven and as far as I know, we have a curfew for minors.
There is no excuse for walking past trouble and not calling the cops. NONE! Minors should be at home at that time of night.
#59
Posted 04 October 2011 - 04:28 PM
Edited by 1joelgomz, 05 October 2011 - 04:14 PM.
#60
Posted 04 October 2011 - 06:07 PM
I agree with your entire post, but thought the above is a gem of a quote. I hope I can remember it if my child ever says our home is like a prison. Excellent comeback!
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