QUOTE(luvmom @ Feb 4 2005, 11:31 AM)
Just as in any issue, there is rarely a catch-all that explains the condition. We are talking about people. We have so many variables. Physical health, mental health, education, support or lack of, criminal history, Chemical Dependncy, and past experiences, that form how we are at any one given time. I don't wish an uncomfortable life for anyone but I will refuse to contribute to addiction satisfaction for anyone. I can't protect folks from their own decisions but I can protect myself.
Yes, I judge the situation and decide who I will give a hand out to. I'm sure I have been had as well. I will always give food or buy food if asked. Cash? I gree with you. My donations can make a difference, or they can be drank up, snorted up, or smoked up.
We are a community and we get to decide what we want to tollerate. I don't want someone yelling and screaming at me and scaring my kids. If I am a business I don't want that either. I don't want a drunk, wandering the street. I'd rather not risk me or someone else, running them over.
I like when the rules are enforced in this community. I like when citizens do the enforcing. Ask the kids to stop skateboarding where it is posted, call the police on a drunk, ask stinky people to leave your buisness if they are causing you to loose paying customers. Report illegal vendors who take away business from the Lease paying ones. We can DO many things to make this community what we want.
If you have a soup kitchen, you will feed folks that cannot provide for themselves. Some will be short timers but you will have those that are not. This is the exact same problem with taking folks into your own home. It is hard to make them leave if they don't want to. Tennant/Landlord laws lean toward protecting the Tenants. So we protect our families from being stepped on, unsure who will take an unintended advantage of our hear felt offerings and who will not.
Yes, I judge the situation and decide who I will give a hand out to. I'm sure I have been had as well. I will always give food or buy food if asked. Cash? I gree with you. My donations can make a difference, or they can be drank up, snorted up, or smoked up.
We are a community and we get to decide what we want to tollerate. I don't want someone yelling and screaming at me and scaring my kids. If I am a business I don't want that either. I don't want a drunk, wandering the street. I'd rather not risk me or someone else, running them over.
I like when the rules are enforced in this community. I like when citizens do the enforcing. Ask the kids to stop skateboarding where it is posted, call the police on a drunk, ask stinky people to leave your buisness if they are causing you to loose paying customers. Report illegal vendors who take away business from the Lease paying ones. We can DO many things to make this community what we want.
If you have a soup kitchen, you will feed folks that cannot provide for themselves. Some will be short timers but you will have those that are not. This is the exact same problem with taking folks into your own home. It is hard to make them leave if they don't want to. Tennant/Landlord laws lean toward protecting the Tenants. So we protect our families from being stepped on, unsure who will take an unintended advantage of our hear felt offerings and who will not.
I was talking to a homeless guy recently. He mentioned that many of the homeless have burned all of their bridges, so family will not help them, and they are thrust upon society.