Posted 18 February 2004 - 08:39 AM
Stevethedad
Sit in’s, Freedom Marches, Protests, are all legal ways of showing your defiance to a law. You are more than welcome to go park your vehicle in a designated parking zone and get your signs and show your defiance walking back and fourth on the sidewalk, or go to the City Council and ask for their assistance in working out something with the school if you can’t work it out with them directly. Try and get access to the teachers parking or anything else you want. However, out right defying a law simply because you don’t like it and not trying to change it for the better good is what is wrong with parents doing this and the out right bad example this is setting for their children. There are very important examples to be showing these kids and that is, that you don’t just choose what it is you are or you are not going to follow but if you don’t like something there is a process to go through to try and change it.
Believe me know one knows how difficult this process is in this city better than I do. It’s ugly and it’s time consuming and it’s difficult, but it is the right way to go not only for myself, my family and the example I’m showing for my daughter but if I succeed than I will also be helping so many others. The statement “police do not come down on these parents proves that they realize, this statement is as ridiculous as they come. Because the police do not enforce the law in this city that means it’s ok. Well, on my residential street, where the speed limit is 25mph, 85% of the 6000 to 8000 vehicles driving on it are exceeding 41mph on a 22ft wide road with no sidewalks, this is documented by the city and they have been aware of the problem for years (you want to talk about dangerous, we just had a vehicle vrs pedestrian (child) accident on Valentines Day here) However, under your theory, because the police are under staffed or are just to lazy to do anything about it, that means they endorse this. I guess that means because mom and dad are not looking or chooses to look over something than it’s ok for the child to do something they know is wrong.
You have proven my point, you think that the law for these parents is ok to bend, but others that think another law is ok to bend is wrong. This is a very ugly road to go down, when everyone gets to determine for themselves the laws or rules they deem acceptable to follow. You think the speeders are wrong, well they may think you are wrong. However, I would say you both are breaking the law and are wrong and are setting very bad examples for the children in those cars. Oh, I know they are supposed to do as we say and not as we do. They should be able to determine that it is ok for Mom or Dad to do something but not ok for them.
Changing something again is not easy but if you don’t like something and feel that you need to be provided a safe, legal way to drop your children off than look at the big picture and the greater good and try and change it, for yourself, your children and others. Stop thinking about I,I,I,I,I Me,Me,Me,Me, and thumb your nose at everyone else. Maybe, if more people took an active roll in changing things, than maybe we would have a safer and more polite roads to drive, bicycle or walk on. Traffic Etiquette is the topic here isn’t it?
Margaret Mead wrote, "Never doubt that a few thoughtful people can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has."