ps: you're right - Vietnamese Appreciation month is probably better than Asian Appreciation month, so you don't have to share the spotlight with, like, Samoans and Kurds and Russians and stuff.
Gay History Month
#76
Posted 06 October 2005 - 08:39 AM
ps: you're right - Vietnamese Appreciation month is probably better than Asian Appreciation month, so you don't have to share the spotlight with, like, Samoans and Kurds and Russians and stuff.
#77
Posted 06 October 2005 - 09:15 AM
#79
Posted 06 October 2005 - 09:42 AM
If you dont like the topic - DONT read it , but PLEASE stop this hyjacking...
You are all acting like grade school kids.....
And considering we have at least 2 moderators participating in the hyjack says alot about the quality of this forum....
Cheers
Ken
Another great day in the adventure of exploration and sight.
"Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed people can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has"
-Margaret Mead-
#80
Posted 06 October 2005 - 11:07 AM
Keep in mind, "when good men do nothing, they let evil truimph."
I'm trying to think of a way to formulate my response without coming off as a patronizing old fart, but I'm not sure it's possible. So forgive me, if I do.
Though I appreciate your efforts to educate us, and I appreciate your enthusiasm, I don't think anyone here is unfamiliar with all, or at least most, of the examples of man's inhumanity to man that you list. Some of us may be old enough to have lived through the most recent ones, like the civil rights movement or Stonewall.
Believe me, it's encouraging to hear young people like yourself get outraged as you learn more about these things. There would be something wrong with your heart if you didn't. And the bad news I have for you is that the more you explore about these events, and the more you analyze the human condition, the uglier the things are that you will find.
I don't want to discourage you from coming here and preaching to the choir, or at least the jaded, but let me tell you a story:
When I was a kid, in 1975 in particular, I was nine and the war in Vietnam ended. Now before that I have memories of this war, or at least the name "Vietnam" on the news. I didn't know anything about it, but after 1975 no one talked about it, or wanted to talk about it. I suppose the scars were too fresh, and so I can't blame the adults for not wanting ot discuss it. So as a teen me and my generation grew up with this hole in our historical knowledge. Basically when we asked about it we got "It was this war, or police action, and no one was still sure why it happened and we kind of lost it and it was very controversial and.... ah forget it kid. You had to be there." So when I was in college this movie Platoon comes out. And all of the veterans who were there were saying "yeah - it was that bad", and all of us young people were saying "really? No one told us anything about it at all. Tell us what it was like." And all of the sudden, after 15 or 20 years, a dialog was opened. We bypassed the historians and politicians and went right to the source - those who were there.
My advice, and take it for what it's worth, is that if you're finding that your peers are unfamiliar with this information, and grown ups don't want to talk about them, then go make your peers familiar. Go find your sources and talk to them. For us the sources were the vets. For you it may be someone at Stonewall or someone in Rwanda or someone in Bosnia or.... the list goes on. You've got the knowledge, you are articulate, and you can hold you own in an argument, as you've proven here. So I know you can do it.
I know we goof off here a lot. And I know that may be frustrating to you because it appears we don't take the issues that you're now learning about very seriously. I'm not saying we don't want to hear it, but, for the most part, we already know that yeah, people have done some pretty barbaric things to other people. Sucks, don't it?
Still, for us old guys, it's helpful to be occasionally kicked in the butt by an idealist who's now figuing out what it all means.
Sinatra "Here's to the Losers"
#81
Posted 06 October 2005 - 11:17 AM
and that's putting it nicely.
Sorry Ken, we should start another topic like What's special this month or something like that and keep this one as you intended.
Do I still get to come to one of your parties?
#82
Posted 06 October 2005 - 11:20 AM
And considering we have at least 2 moderators participating in the hyjack says alot about the quality of this forum....
Cheers
Ken
If you don't like it, take your own advice and don't read it.
/and quit whining, nobody is hijacking this thread. There is a difference between a tangent and a hijacking.
#83
Posted 06 October 2005 - 11:21 AM
I know we goof off here a lot. And I know that may be frustrating to you because it appears we don't take the issues that you're now learning about very seriously. I'm not saying we don't want to hear it, but, for the most part, we already know that yeah, people have done some pretty barbaric things to other people. Sucks, don't it?
that was very eloquently (sp) put, ngilbert--and you're right--sometimes life is'nt fair, and sometimes life does suck, as you say--but most people are able to 'move on', despite feeling that life is dealing them a lousy hand--those people should look around and realize how good they have it here instead of living in some 3rd world country that does not tolerate things they consider abnormal--
i would say, all in all, if that's the extent of thier problems, then life's pretty darn good--
#84
Posted 06 October 2005 - 12:03 PM
You actually have a national gay day WITHIN a national gay month
Do you really have to take that kind of attitude ???
Cheers
Ken
Another great day in the adventure of exploration and sight.
"Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed people can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has"
-Margaret Mead-
#86
Posted 06 October 2005 - 12:12 PM
These topics are not covered in schools yet, which I think is wrong. We are taught about the the problems the Asians faced on the West Coast, the problems Blacks faced in the South, what the Jewish faced during WWII, etc.
Yet when I ask about the handicapped and the gays during the Holocaust, my question is ignored. When I bring up Stonewall when we go through the 1960's in U.S. History, I am overlooked.
My peers need to be informed of all that has happened in this country, such as the government refusing to allow Jewish people to enter the States before and during WWII. They also need to hear about that horrors that the CIVILIANS went thru when the bombs were dropped on Hiroshima and Nagasaki. They need to hear about the Bataan Death March, the March of Tears, and all the other events in history that has shaped our nation into what it is today.
These issues (excluding the gay movement) are barely touched nowadays. What's that one quote..."if we don't learn from our past we are bound to repeat it." or something like that? Well, we're not being taught in the depth we should be.
Keep in mind, "when good men do nothing, they let evil truimph."
A couple of really good movies are 'BENT' dealing with the gays during the Nazi reign-- I had never heard of this type of persecution during the war before I saw this movie. It was not in our history books- but should be
Another one is American Dream ( with Kevin Spacik (sp) ) - I saw my past life and family in this one--- including the errant daughter--
Farley exposed me to these and many other movies during my coming out period and they were enlightening... as a previous homophobic and manphobic - I learned alot about myself and am now very comfortable with my own being as well as being with and around others-
I have met more people in the last 4 years - st8 and gay than I had met in the previous 40 years and it was understanding what and who I am that has allowed me to accept myself and let myself into other peoples lives...
If you havent seen these two flicks- suggest them...
There are many others -but these two stand out to me...
Cheers
F500
Another great day in the adventure of exploration and sight.
"Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed people can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has"
-Margaret Mead-
#87
Posted 06 October 2005 - 12:16 PM
It is not GAY AWARENESS DAY _ it is GAy COMING OUT DAY-- and what better time to have it occur than Gay History Month...
Call things as you may--- Homophobics( as I was once) have little tolerance for anything or anyone gay... Guess you get to join the club...
Cheers
F500
Another great day in the adventure of exploration and sight.
"Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed people can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has"
-Margaret Mead-
#88
Posted 06 October 2005 - 12:26 PM
Ok you want serious? Seriously - I have gay friends here at work and we get a long great because
1. They are great guys
2. We work well together
3. They don't talk about their private lives.
Their private life is kept private. For this sexual persuasion to be compared to a minority race, a gender, or a handicap, not to mention the Jews, is just insulting to me.
On top of that declaring "gay pride month", "gay history month", "National Coming Out Day" and whatever other "special gay days" is all to much! You have to understand how nuts this sounds to me (and maybe to some others). Hijacking a thread? It almost seems to me that this entire forum has been hi jacked an organized gay agenda. How is that for staying on subject?
Guess I am just a patronizing old fart.
Also - about the "if you don't want to see it - don't read it" point of view.
You can't be on this forum and not read about it. This forum is permeated with gayness (did I just make up a word?).
So what's my options? To continue to have a good time, good conversation, and yes, sometimes that means
#89
Posted 06 October 2005 - 12:28 PM
and To be honest, look at who have been the ones who hijack the whole forum since 2004.
Perhaps tasting a little of your own medicine will help you understand how much people around here have to endure.
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