Posted 19 July 2011 - 02:12 PM
Obviously, I have not been aware of religions being taught in school. Sue me.
And obviously there are some posters who think gay history should be taught and some that don't. I seems the numbers that don't are larger. Maybe someone can do a poll.
Stepping back a bit, I can see this is a cultural issue in our society and that it probably won't go away. However, that doesn't make me someone who hates gays or thinks all gays are pedophiles, no matter how some posters are trying to spin it and degrade those of us who appose this sort of instruction in public schools. I'm sure there are sexual deviates in all genders and sexual preferences.
I'm reminded of the recent case of the little boy who was kidnapped and killed by a young man, in a very vicious and horrible way, back east.
I never opposed gay marriage, but many disagreed with me. I never once called them homophobic or said they hated all gays. But I guess those who attack me now, fail to see that. How on earth can I hate gays and agree they should be able to marry?
I find it very interesting that when disagreeing with some people, they are so quick to resort to name calling and personally degrading who they disagree with. Yet, they know it isn't right when THEY are called names and want the sympathy of all of us when ever it happens.
And I have to add.....when I was a kid, granted, a very long time ago, "Partners" were often referred to in Western movies, where a man had a buddy/friend he traveled with. It did not have the same meaning it does today in the gay community.
I think it's naive to think that a word, such as "partner" would be used to describe a gay partner while instructing students. I'm sure that would NOT satisfy the gay community, as it's too vague. It would be too mild a form of instruction and leave some students without a clue. I'm very sure the word "Gay" would be used as insisted by the gay community. Even though "Gay" is considered slang and the proper term should be homosexual...which the gay community seems to hate.
On another note, being celibate does not make one less gay any more than it makes one less heterosexual. It only means one is abstaining from sexual activity. What sex they are attracted to is what counts.
I doubt that gay education will change the minds of those who oppose it in public schools. It will probably be viewed as the ever present pushing of the gay agenda which many are sick of. Change takes time and pushing it only makes those it's directed towards more hostile. I guess too many haven't learned that yet.
I would much rather know the person than the sexual identity they insist on wrapping themselves into...to the point they make it their entire identity related to what they do in the bedroom. Straight people who are obsessed about sex are said to have a sexual addiction. I guess a gay person could have a sexual addiction as well. I care about anyone's sexual activities about as much I as care about their latest bowel movement.
Given the chance to know the person as a human being first, most would not be so quick to reject them when they found out they are gay. As long as their sexual activity was never a part of the conversations and there was no attempt from the gay person to try to introduce them into the gay community.
But, I have found that too many gays only have other gays in their lives. They are so consumed with the gay community they do not understand they are separating themselves more than ever before. How can a society learn to accept them if they are all about being divided from the main stream community?
Having a family member who is gay, I would not ever reject her or degrade her. However, because we disagree about some political issues, she has rejected me.
Tolerance must go both ways. But it seems in today's life, it's tolerance for me, but NOT for the...type of viewpoint.
Carry on in your discussions. I have grown very weary of this topic and feel it has run it's course. For me, at least.
Thank you for sharing your views.