Yes - the mother was stupid. She should have taken responsibility for the situation she was in. I take these unconfirmed media reports with a grain of salt, but the news reported Adam and his mother had been fighting. They have also reported that the mother and father had discussions on how to take care of Adam. Friends report that the mother used guns to try to teach responsibility to Adam AND he was a troubled child. Now that's a great combination. You know how I learned responsibility? I got a job. Did Adam have one? I don't know. Was he able to hold one? I doubt it.
Aspergers not associated with violence? I'm not so sure about this. I know a child with Aspergers how has problems controlling his anger to the point I try to keep my children away from him for their safety.
This is different for everyone, but my mom told me "as long as you live under my roof you live by my rules."
The mother had guns in a home where a person with mental issues who had violent tendencies lived. Is she to blame? Yes! When my first child started walking I got rid of my guns. Why? Because I take responsibility for my actions.
Sorry- your "friends" article is full of bs. completely biased.
Have you ever babysat a child with any type of autism?
You definitely have to keep them in your line of sight, constantly. (in case you feel like asking me, the answer is yes, I have).
As for autism kids.... you better believe they have entire blocks of time that they are introverted. and different kids with aspbergers have different response to stimuli that appear violent but are actually body jerks. Not violence. And that misconception often scares the crud out of ignorant people. different asbergers kids also have other problems, as well.. These problems are not consistent. They are not by the book.
Sometimes, these kids can have aspbergers and then have other mental conditions that are untreated because the doctors just cant communicate to the patient well enough to treat it.
If you have never been normal how can you tell a doctor what is wrong?
And since a kid who babysat this guy at 10 years old never knew him as a young man when most psychotic personality disorders present themselves, then how can you possibly take this article for anything other than a piece of crud inflammatory sensationalism? We dont have that kids mental diagnosis in front of us. Let's try to keep that in mind before trying to blame mommy.
There is no way to control certain types of psychotic breaks when they happen. And it doesnt necessarily mean there is going to be any forewarning of a change in his normal behavior or personality.
This guy could have been a typical "genius" level kid with the zero ability to socially interact who was moved around different schools because they didnt have a school that had a section that dedicates itself to autism array disorders (like Folsom schools do).
In other words, you really dont know if his behavior was normal or not- prior to this mental break. Anything could have happened. We need more info.