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#1 caligirlz

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Posted 23 October 2015 - 11:29 PM

I was having this conversation with someone recently. They said "1st world problems." So....I asked what it meant, because I pretty sure that is a fairly new saying. It's certainly not from my generation. Is it from the millennial generation? I don't like it. It feels derogatory. A put down.

 

Here's some ridiculous examples > http://www.huffingto..._b_4117701.html

I think this saying is the result of social media! :teepee:

 

Other sayings that bug me...

"it is what it is" - I used to hear this at work all the time. Sounds like an excuse from management and that they aint going to do nothing.

"whatever" - another way to discount the opinion of another

 

It seems to me that there are lots of sayings these days to talk down to others. When we discount another person's words/behavior, we are taking on the role of judge & jury without understanding their motivation and experience. It's hurtful.

 

 

So what sayings bug you? Oh dear, just realized, this topic. 1st world problems. :who-me:



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Posted 24 October 2015 - 04:20 AM

What a great conversation starter! Thanks for thinking of it. I can think of some words that bug me when I hear people say them. First, yummy, which sounds like baby talk from an adult. Second, Cali. As a fifth generation Californian, this sounds like east coast or southern Californian gang language. It bugs me in the way that native San Franciscans used to be bugged by Frisco.

By the way, I agree about first world problems. Yes, they pale in comparison to third world problems, but it's where I live and I have a right to my own experience. I am not ashamed to live in the first world.
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Posted 24 October 2015 - 06:26 AM

What a great conversation starter! Thanks for thinking of it. I can think of some words that bug me when I hear people say them. First, yummy, which sounds like baby talk from an adult. Second, Cali. As a fifth generation Californian, this sounds like east coast or southern Californian gang language. It bugs me in the way that native San Franciscans used to be bugged by Frisco.

By the way, I agree about first world problems. Yes, they pale in comparison to third world problems, but it's where I live and I have a right to my own experience. I am not ashamed to live in the first world.

 

I agree about "yummy" (or "yum") and "Cali".  Being from the Bay Area, "Frisco" does still make me flinch - it just sounds "wrong", as well as sort of quaint.

 

It's verbally ironic that the Third World is a first-world problem nowadays.



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Posted 24 October 2015 - 06:41 AM

I was having this conversation with someone recently. They said "1st world problems." So....I asked what it meant, because I pretty sure that is a fairly new saying. It's certainly not from my generation. Is it from the millennial generation? I don't like it. It feels derogatory. A put down.

 

Here's some ridiculous examples > http://www.huffingto..._b_4117701.html

I think this saying is the result of social media! :teepee:

 

Other sayings that bug me...

"it is what it is" - I used to hear this at work all the time. Sounds like an excuse from management and that they aint going to do nothing.

"whatever" - another way to discount the opinion of another

 

It seems to me that there are lots of sayings these days to talk down to others. When we discount another person's words/behavior, we are taking on the role of judge & jury without understanding their motivation and experience. It's hurtful.

 

 

So what sayings bug you? Oh dear, just realized, this topic. 1st world problems. :who-me:

 

I was having this conversation with someone recently. They said "1st world problems." So....I asked what it meant, because I pretty sure that is a fairly new saying. It's certainly not from my generation. Is it from the millennial generation? I don't like it. It feels derogatory. A put down.

 

Here's some ridiculous examples > http://www.huffingto..._b_4117701.html

I think this saying is the result of social media! :teepee:

 

Other sayings that bug me...

"it is what it is" - I used to hear this at work all the time. Sounds like an excuse from management and that they aint going to do nothing.

"whatever" - another way to discount the opinion of another

 

It seems to me that there are lots of sayings these days to talk down to others. When we discount another person's words/behavior, we are taking on the role of judge & jury without understanding their motivation and experience. It's hurtful.

 

 

So what sayings bug you? Oh dear, just realized, this topic. 1st world problems. :who-me:

 

I always hated "it is what it is" at work, along with the almost countless examples of jargon that managers and others dutifully learn and repeat.  (A current favorite is using "ask" as a noun.)  Where I work, they also refer to non-management employees as "resources".  The work world is full of off-putting words and terms.

 

I rarely have conversations that aren't about something I'm doing at the moment, unless I'm talking with family, so I don't tend to hear annoying words and phrases directly.  Typically l hear them on TV, or more commonly, I read them online.  Either I have to shrug them off, or be permanently bugged, because the annoying words, the bad grammar and spelling, not to mention the thoughts that make me lose hope in society, are all over the place.

 

I've noticed at least a couple of expressions that have been created or resurrected by the Millennial generation, then become adopted by older generations as well.  Only one occurs to me now:  "over the moon".  I'm not sure if this has been resurrected by the younger generation, or if I have simply been oblivious to other people using it all along.  But no one I knew (I'm age 55) ever used that term growing up, and it seemed like an archaic term that my grandparents might have once used.  But now I see interviews on TV in which bubbly young women (mostly) and men are "over the moon" about something, and it's become commonplace enough so that older people are using it as well.  But I don't think they were using the phrase until they heard younger people using it.

 

I have a feeling that I would be cringing left and right if I were ever put into an office full of twenty-somethings for a week:  it would be a perfect storm of work jargon and Millennial terms.

 

An expression that has been overused for a while now is "at the end of the day".  If you watch any Reality TV show, and need a drinking game, use that one as your key phrase, and you'll be kept plenty busy raising your glass.  (Not that I play drinking games.)



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Posted 24 October 2015 - 11:29 AM

 

 

 

 

It's verbally ironic that the Third World is a first-world problem nowadays.

Is there a 'Second World "   ????  and if so - why ?


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Posted 24 October 2015 - 11:37 AM

Is there a 'Second World "   ????  and if so - why ?

 

Ken, I just found this interesting read: http://www.nationson...d_countries.htm


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Posted 24 October 2015 - 01:42 PM

Literally, the word that makes me cringe is literally-literally.  If someone uses it they use it all the time and incorrectly, I might add. 

 

At the end of the day is overused but one I have been hearing a lot of politicians use is  "From day one, I'll blah, blah, blah.  Really, from literally the first day???



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Posted 24 October 2015 - 02:27 PM

Is there a 'Second World "   ????  and if so - why ?

 

I used to wonder that myself.  I came to understand that the "Second World" was the Soviet sphere of influence during the Cold War - i.e. those socialist or communist economies where no one was starving, but where life was generally crappy.

 

Edit:  oops, I now see that Deb posted a link that confirms it.



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Posted 24 October 2015 - 02:36 PM

Disrupted. Everything these days is disrupted.

Or "vintage" and "shabby chic" - no, it's just old beat up crap.

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Posted 24 October 2015 - 05:26 PM

Irregardless.

I could care less.

 

Both of these drive me nuts.



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Posted 24 October 2015 - 05:51 PM

CaliGirl, it's hard to answer this question because, well, like, you know, everything has been, you know, like, dumbed-down so much that, like, you know, it's hard to, like, put a finger on it, but I am going to think outside the box and be a trooper and if I don't really, like, see the end-game, then it is what it is and I will sorta like say "whatever". Ya know what I'm sayin ?? You feelin me dude ??

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Posted 24 October 2015 - 09:44 PM

Orientated
And starting every sentence with "so."
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Posted 24 October 2015 - 10:17 PM

I'll get back to you on that...

I'll catch you on the next one (re money)...

"We" need to do this (meaning you)...

Good enough for government work...

 

The debate is settled...

You didn't create that...

If you like your doctor you can keep your doctor...

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Posted 24 October 2015 - 10:24 PM

Great responses!!!    O.M.G!! :headbang:  (I hate text talk)

 

"noodling"

Is a comment that my boss started using last year. It supposedly means brainstorming. It reminded me of the kid with a bowl of spaghetti over his head.  Turns out, that a couple of the guys made up the word, and were saying it around the boss who wanted to be hip & cool. She ran with it (while we snickered). And they finally fessed up. She still uses it!!!

 

The other saying that has grown in popularity over the last couple of years, "reaching out."   :noway:

Instead of contact you, talk to you, it's reach out to so & so..........

 

 

Kudo's to _____ for "stepping up to the plate" (gag)

Baby boomers have always gone above & beyond, it's in our genes....step up to the plate?? only if it's full of brownies!!!!!



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Posted 24 October 2015 - 10:34 PM

Orientated
And starting every sentence with "so."

 

And ending a sentence with "sooooooooooooooooooooo."


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