Blah blah blah. This is what you wrote: "If you decide to move here you will notice the level of sophisication does not come close to the bay area: restaurants,shopping and other things I dont care to mention." You said you moved here because you couldn't afford a house there. Not because of family. Plenty of houses in the BA if you want to make the tradeoffs. But I'm guess you didn't want to make a tradeoff. You wanted a nicer house for your dollar. So don't BS me. Don't confuse concern for your family the same as concern for fitting into a community. I'm sure your family is important to you. But what about community? If not, like I said, you fit better in the BA.
Whatever. Be defensive. I don't really care. It's people like you that drove me from the Bay Area, which I called home for 20+ years, to come here. East Bay is the one part of the Bay Area I'd never live in. If you think the East Bay is better than here, I'm more than happy for you if you can move back soon. This is where I call home now.