QUOTE(ChipShot @ Nov 13 2008, 12:36 PM)
Second offense??
That's not a good sign.
Actually, I guess I should clarify.
This was the first time she had texted in class. The first offense was, she forgot to turn off her phone before going into class, it made a noise, so it was taken away, I forget for how long. I have no problem with that, having a cell phone make noise in class is disruptive, and it should be taken away.
I don't know what you mean by it not being a good sign. Not a good sign of what? Of my daughter being a regular kid who messes up sometimes and, hopefully, learns from her mistakes? As we all do?
Middle school age is a trying time for parents. Your children are growing up, they are seeking more independence. And its important for them to be more independent. But at the same time, parents are anxious about their safety. I find the cell phone to be a very valuable tool. She wants to walk or ride or skate to school. It makes me nervous, but I don't want to stifle her growing sense of independence and responsibility. So I ask her to call me when she gets there so I know she's safe.
And that's my choice. This is my kid. That's the point.