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Advice Needed...
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Andrea V
, Dec 16 2007 03:18 PM
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#182
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Posted 23 December 2007 - 09:04 PM
There has been no forcing, read the thread... we have already begun to have our second at this point, we are both very happy.
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Posted 24 December 2007 - 02:57 AM
QUOTE(Montrose @ Dec 23 2007, 04:05 PM) 
Why would anyone seeking advice on PERSONAL ISSUES on MyFolsom Forum?
Different strokes for different folks.
It's obvious that this couple needed to talk it out and found this forum a good place to do it.
To quote the bard, "All's well that ends well."
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Posted 27 December 2007 - 08:13 AM
QUOTE(Ronda @ Dec 24 2007, 02:57 AM)
Different strokes for different folks.
It's obvious that this couple needed to talk it out and found this forum a good place to do it.
To quote the bard, "All's well that ends well."
It's obvious that this couple needed to talk it out and found this forum a good place to do it.
To quote the bard, "All's well that ends well."
I don't have any information on babies but if you want a kid I know you can pick them up for a couple bucks on the street corners . . . there is even one for sale on My Folsom!!!
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Just call Darth Vader.
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Posted 13 January 2008 - 09:08 PM
Apparently Chris has super sperm! Because I have not even had my IUD out for 1 month yet, and I am already PREGNANT!!
I had 3 positive home pregnancy tests this morning. (yeah 3, just to make SURE!)
I had 3 positive home pregnancy tests this morning. (yeah 3, just to make SURE!)
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Posted 13 January 2008 - 09:18 PM
QUOTE(Andrea V @ Jan 13 2008, 09:08 PM)
Apparently Chris has super sperm! Because I have not even had my IUD out for 1 month yet, and I am already PREGNANT!!
I had 3 positive home pregnancy tests this morning. (yeah 3, just to make SURE!)
I had 3 positive home pregnancy tests this morning. (yeah 3, just to make SURE!)
CONGRATS!!!!
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Posted 13 January 2008 - 09:19 PM
I AM THAT GOOD... 
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Posted 13 January 2008 - 09:24 PM
Congratulations, and take good care of yourself, Andrea. 
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Posted 13 January 2008 - 09:42 PM
Oh my GOSH!! That's fantastic! Congratulations!
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Posted 13 January 2008 - 10:25 PM
QUOTE(Andrea V @ Jan 13 2008, 09:08 PM)
Apparently Chris has super sperm! Because I have not even had my IUD out for 1 month yet, and I am already PREGNANT!!
I had 3 positive home pregnancy tests this morning. (yeah 3, just to make SURE!)
I had 3 positive home pregnancy tests this morning. (yeah 3, just to make SURE!)
No. You just have some super eggs!!!!!! Give credit where it is due.
CONGRATULATIONS!
A happy and healthy nine months to you.
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Posted 13 January 2008 - 10:51 PM
Congratulations! Sending good thoughts for a super healthy pregnancy!
(And if you want to see how the age difference will be like, feel free to come hang around our house for a day. It's interesting, to say the least. =)
(And if you want to see how the age difference will be like, feel free to come hang around our house for a day. It's interesting, to say the least. =)
THANK YOU FOR SUPPORTING MY GIRL.
We could not be doing this without you.
Much love and gratitude.
We could not be doing this without you.
Much love and gratitude.
#192
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Posted 13 January 2008 - 11:36 PM
QUOTE(Andrea V @ Dec 16 2007, 03:18 PM)
When we got married we decided we did not want this "thing"...
Time has gone by, and I now want it, and he still does not.
I say... "please... I really want it..."
and he says "no, we already decided against it, you can't change your mind"
But.... yes I can.
I change my mind all of the time. At this point in time I really want it. And I think it is not fair he doesn't want me to have it.
We already have 1, so what is the difference of 2?
I guess my question is.... is it ok to change your mind about something you decided on many years ago?
Time has gone by, and I now want it, and he still does not.
I say... "please... I really want it..."
and he says "no, we already decided against it, you can't change your mind"
But.... yes I can.
I change my mind all of the time. At this point in time I really want it. And I think it is not fair he doesn't want me to have it.
We already have 1, so what is the difference of 2?
I guess my question is.... is it ok to change your mind about something you decided on many years ago?
Yes, it's okay to change your mind. But, if your partner really doesn't want it and you agreed to it beforehand, it may be a mute point. I would say that you should basically accept that one is enough.
Or, some gentle convincing might be in order. Give him your reasons as to why you want more. Don't be super emotional about it....just matter of fact with a little desire. Back off and pray about it. Plant seeds and then change the subject. Gentleness is the answer. I hope you get your second, since life is so awesome with more life.
Accept status quo and celebrate it if he changes his mind.
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Posted 14 January 2008 - 02:03 PM
Congrats on the great news, hope for a healthy pregnancy. Fingers x-ed for no "Emo kid" . . .
And the king spake unto Ashpenaz the master of his eunuchs, that he should bring certain of the children of Israel, and of the king's seed, and of the princes; Children in whom was no blemish, but well favoured, and skilful in all wisdom, and cunning in knowledge, and understanding science, and such as had ability in them to stand in the king's palace, and whom they might teach the learning and the tongue of the Chaldeans. And the king appointed them a daily provision of the king's meat, and of the wine which he drank: so nourishing them three years, that at the end thereof they might stand before the king. Now among these were of the children of Judah, Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah: Unto whom the prince of the eunuchs gave names: for he gave unto Daniel the name of Belteshazzar; and to Hananiah, of Shadrach; and to Mishael, of Meshach; and to Azariah, of Abednego. But Daniel purposed in his heart that he would not defile himself with the portion of the king's meat, nor with the wine which he drank: therefore he requested of the prince of the eunuchs that he might not defile himself. Now God had brought Daniel into favour and tender love with the prince of the eunuchs. And the prince of the eunuchs said unto Daniel, I fear my lord the king, who hath appointed your meat and your drink: for why should he see your faces worse liking than the children which are of your sort? then shall ye make me endanger my head to the king. Then said Daniel to Melzar, whom the prince of the eunuchs had set over Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah, Prove thy servants, I beseech thee, ten days; and let them give us pulse to eat, and water to drink. Then let our countenances be looked upon before thee, and the countenance of the children that eat of the portion of the king's meat: and as thou seest, deal with thy servants. So he consented to them in this matter, and proved them ten days. And at the end of ten days their countenances appeared fairer and fatter in flesh than all the children which did eat the portion of the king's meat. Thus Melzar took away the portion of their meat, and the wine that they should drink; and gave them pulse. As for these four children, God gave them knowledge and skill in all learning and wisdom: and Daniel had understanding in all visions and dreams. And the king communed with them; and among them all was found none like Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah: therefore stood they before the king. And in all matters of wisdom and understanding, that the king enquired of them, he found them ten times better than all the magicians and astrologers that were in all his realm.]
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Posted 14 January 2008 - 02:24 PM
QUOTE(dcmss @ Jan 14 2008, 02:03 PM)
Congrats on the great news, hope for a healthy pregnancy. Fingers x-ed for no "Emo kid" . . .
I wouldn't allow it.
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Posted 14 January 2008 - 02:24 PM
That's terrific -
I just met a girl at a coffee shop who's a Doula. Are you going that route or will you use a Dr?
Hospital or Home? Under water or in the open?
Be sure to take your Folic Acid!
Congrats again......
I just met a girl at a coffee shop who's a Doula. Are you going that route or will you use a Dr?
Hospital or Home? Under water or in the open?
Be sure to take your Folic Acid!
Congrats again......
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We値l get mixed up of course, as we already know.
We値l get mixed up with many strange birds as we go.
You have feet in your shoes.
You can steer yourself
any direction you choose.
You're on your own.
And you know what you know.
And YOU are the one who'll decide where to go.
You won稚 lag behind, because you値l have the speed.
You値l pass the whole gang and you値l soon take the lead.
Wherever you fly, you値l be the best of the best.
Wherever you go, you will top all the rest.
I'm sorry to say so
But, sadly it's true
That bang-ups and hang-ups
Can happen to you.
On an on we will hike, And I know we値l hike far
and face up to our problems whatever they are.
We値l get mixed up of course, as we already know.
We値l get mixed up with many strange birds as we go.
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